Relationship Breakdowns and
Relationship Breakups
When you're the one doing the breaking up
No matter how long or how short you’ve been together, you still
shared love or at least a connection. And it can be quite difficult if
you realized that the relationship is not working anymore. But it is
harder if you think of how you could deliver the bad news and say it to
the person who is expecting that you would still reciprocate the love
that he or she is giving.
Before you drop the big bomb that would surely crush your partner’s
heart there are some things that you should think of and consider. You
might regret your decision in the end.
One of the biggest mistakes done when breaking up is doing it while
you are at the peak of an argument. It is best that you think about
breaking up after your fight. Then think of the reasons why you feel
that the relationship should not continue anymore.
Look at the issues why conflicts between you and your partner arise.
Then if you still can, try to resolve these issues and save your
relationship.
But if you have been trying again and again to resolve these issues
yet nothing happens, prepare for all the questions that your partner
will throw you once you say that you want to get out of the
relationship.
And although that whole breaking up conversation would be very hard
for both of you, you have to do this in person. Do not ever break up
with someone by simply calling him or her, sending a text message, or by
simply giving an e-mail. Aside from being unethical doing these may also
be psychologically damaging to the other person. If you don’t want to
see more drama, meet up with the person in a public establishment such
as cafes or restaurants. Do it in an unfamiliar location not in the
place where the two of you had memorable experiences so that it would be
less tormenting for your partner.
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